Saturday, February 03, 2007
Sex Techniques - Satisfy Her Tonight
Sex Techniques - Satisfy Her Tonight - Men Only
by Jani
Guys, how would you like it if you could bring out the animal, love starved creature that is within every woman? Imagine her acting like a ruthless crazed slut, begging you to satisfy her. You are about to learn the inner secrets of female sexuality.
You do not need to good looking, built like Atlas, wealthy, or hung like a horse this method will turn you into some kind of a legend in the singles bars.
Some of you guys are not doing your jobs ... I will teach you how. For the time being, forget about the clitoris. I think most men have figured out how to get their lady off with manual or oral stimulation of the clitoris. Clitoral orgasms are fine, but I am going to talk about something much more powerful and intense - a G-spot orgasm - AKA a G-gasm. What is a G-gasm?
Let us first define orgasm.
*** The meaning of life.
*** A discharge of neuromuscular tensions at the apex of sexual stimulation that is accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in men and by vaginal contractions and possibly a "squirt" in the female. It is either one or the other ... one is more technical.
A G-gasm is a vaginal orgasm - not a clitoral orgasm. G-gasms are much more powerful and intense - more like a whole body orgasm. Direct G-spot stimulation produces G-gasms and most women have the ability to have multiple G-gasms. As the G-spot is stimulated, it grows in size, with continued stimulation a woman can also ejaculate.
There are plenty of "doctors" that will swear there is no such thing as a "vaginal orgasm." These same experts will tell you that the only way to achieve female orgasm is by direct stimulation of the clitoris. Recent discoveries about the size of the clitoris - it extends inside the body - would seem to support my theory and method about G-gasms. The nerves of the clitoris pass through the G-spot and connect to the spinal cord for transmission to the brain cells. As the G-spot is stimulated, it grows in size. Somewhat like a beneath the surface penis.
How awesome is that?
It is almost impossible to stimulate the G-spot effectively during intercourse. A penis is not designed to curve upwards and stimulate the G-spot. Rather the function of the penis is to deliver sperm as close to the cervix as possible.
This is where nimble fingers come into play. The best way to "wake up" the G-spot is with your fingers. After a clit stimulated orgasm, be it manually or with the tongue, even look at her clit and a woman will push you away. The G-spot is different. Once triggered and excited, do not treat it as a clit. In the excited state, the G-spot likes abuse - treat it rough. Beat an engorged, fully eager penis with a hammer and a man would say, " Wow - that feels great." The G-spot is similar. Be gentle with the clit - be rough with the G-spot.
Again, a G-gasm is an orgasm achieved through direct stimulation of the G-spot.
The G-gasm Method is all about pleasing her. She will scream "OH MY GOSH" until her throat is sore and her eyes roll back.
There is nothing ladylike about it. This will become addictive to her. It will make your woman feel fulfilled and confident. You guys will strut around like a clean-up hitter after a grand slam.
About the Author
Speaker, sex workshop facilitator, sex writer, blogger, editor, sex educator, and sex lover Jani, is the author of The G-gasm Method: The Ultimate Guide to the G-spot Orgasm - and Tonight's The Night ... Your Ultimate Guide to Sexy, Kinky Things to do With Your Lover available at Sex techniques and Amazon.com.
Thanks ...let the G-gasms roll.
by Jani
Guys, how would you like it if you could bring out the animal, love starved creature that is within every woman? Imagine her acting like a ruthless crazed slut, begging you to satisfy her. You are about to learn the inner secrets of female sexuality.
You do not need to good looking, built like Atlas, wealthy, or hung like a horse this method will turn you into some kind of a legend in the singles bars.
Some of you guys are not doing your jobs ... I will teach you how. For the time being, forget about the clitoris. I think most men have figured out how to get their lady off with manual or oral stimulation of the clitoris. Clitoral orgasms are fine, but I am going to talk about something much more powerful and intense - a G-spot orgasm - AKA a G-gasm. What is a G-gasm?
Let us first define orgasm.
*** The meaning of life.
*** A discharge of neuromuscular tensions at the apex of sexual stimulation that is accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in men and by vaginal contractions and possibly a "squirt" in the female. It is either one or the other ... one is more technical.
A G-gasm is a vaginal orgasm - not a clitoral orgasm. G-gasms are much more powerful and intense - more like a whole body orgasm. Direct G-spot stimulation produces G-gasms and most women have the ability to have multiple G-gasms. As the G-spot is stimulated, it grows in size, with continued stimulation a woman can also ejaculate.
There are plenty of "doctors" that will swear there is no such thing as a "vaginal orgasm." These same experts will tell you that the only way to achieve female orgasm is by direct stimulation of the clitoris. Recent discoveries about the size of the clitoris - it extends inside the body - would seem to support my theory and method about G-gasms. The nerves of the clitoris pass through the G-spot and connect to the spinal cord for transmission to the brain cells. As the G-spot is stimulated, it grows in size. Somewhat like a beneath the surface penis.
How awesome is that?
It is almost impossible to stimulate the G-spot effectively during intercourse. A penis is not designed to curve upwards and stimulate the G-spot. Rather the function of the penis is to deliver sperm as close to the cervix as possible.
This is where nimble fingers come into play. The best way to "wake up" the G-spot is with your fingers. After a clit stimulated orgasm, be it manually or with the tongue, even look at her clit and a woman will push you away. The G-spot is different. Once triggered and excited, do not treat it as a clit. In the excited state, the G-spot likes abuse - treat it rough. Beat an engorged, fully eager penis with a hammer and a man would say, " Wow - that feels great." The G-spot is similar. Be gentle with the clit - be rough with the G-spot.
Again, a G-gasm is an orgasm achieved through direct stimulation of the G-spot.
The G-gasm Method is all about pleasing her. She will scream "OH MY GOSH" until her throat is sore and her eyes roll back.
There is nothing ladylike about it. This will become addictive to her. It will make your woman feel fulfilled and confident. You guys will strut around like a clean-up hitter after a grand slam.
About the Author
Speaker, sex workshop facilitator, sex writer, blogger, editor, sex educator, and sex lover Jani, is the author of The G-gasm Method: The Ultimate Guide to the G-spot Orgasm - and Tonight's The Night ... Your Ultimate Guide to Sexy, Kinky Things to do With Your Lover available at Sex techniques and Amazon.com.
Thanks ...let the G-gasms roll.
The Middle East Sex Plan
by Aidan Maconachy
The psychologist J.M. Prescott found a link between sexual repression and aggression. Writing in the Bulletin of Atomic Scientists, Preston noted that "societies forbidding premarital sex are plagued by acts of rage." Prescott also found a link between sexual repression and "...a greater likelihood of killing and torturing enemies."
Islam does not support sexual liberation. Unless you happen to be a sheik with a pleasure palace and a a dozen mistresses, life for the average unmarried Muslim male in the Middle East doesn't offer a lot of opportunity . The society doesn't encourage it ... no billboard ads with skimpily dressed babes, no sex toy stores or adult video outlets, no racy magazines in the local store. In societies such as Saudi Arabia most of the females are veiled. A guy would have to be blessed with x-ray vision in order to get a glimpse of anything more erotic than say - an ankle or elbow.
This state-of-sexual-affairs is bound to add to the frustration level of young Muslim males with testosterone raging and adrenalin driving up the potential for explosive outbursts. As we know from TV footage, explosions of rage are common occurrences in the Muslim world. It's not unusual to see crowds of males channeling their energy into mass frenzies at funerals, flag-and-effigy-burning-demos or just to make a point about something they don't like on the news.
Internet porn is out of reach to most. Unlike Western nations, you can't assume that the average person living in say in Libya or Iran, will have ready access to a personal PC. In any case even those who do have PC's are often up against censors with filtering devices designed to prevent the encroachment of Western sex demons. Amongst those citizens of Muslim countries who have access to PC's and the software to get around the net, a few telling trends have been noted.
The Muslim world is fanatically obsessed with sex, according to statistics from Google Trend sources. If you type "sex" into Google Trends you can obtain a ranked list of cities, countries and languages in which the term was used most frequently.
Well surprise, surprise ... turns out the "decadent" Westerners were not the main sex seekers on Google.
According to a Spiegel article entitled "Sex and Taboos in the Islamic World", Pakistanis search for "sex" online most frequently, followed closely by Egyptians. Iran and Morocco were in fourth and fifth place, Indonesia seventh and Saudi Arabia eighth.
As any who are acquainted with Islamic sexual taboos well know, homosexuality is considered the ultimate moral horror, and is vigorously outlawed. In Iran men have even been tortured and executed for the "crime" of being gay. So it was interesting to discover that when the terms "boy sex" and "man boy sex" were entered into Google Trends, the top four top search countries listed were Pakistan, Iran, Saudi Arabia and Egypt.
It's pretty evident that despite the lack of sexual freedoms in Muslim societies, there is a voracious appetite behind the scenes for sex, sex and more sex. And maybe that is exactly the remedy - more sex. Move over Condoleezza Rice, perhaps the real key to peace in the Middle East is sexual detente.
Bush should consider appointing Hugh Hefner as an honorary General and send in a few battalions of Playboy bunnies. It's hard to imagine how they could be less successful at quelling the insurgency than the strategies that have been used thus far.
No wonder countries such as Iran banned YouTube and filter content. If Iranian youth of martyr-like disposition were free to surf the sexual web they might give up the desire to blow themselves up. How tragic would that be? The rage that creates suicide bombers would be notched down a few critical degrees. Suddenly the lure of hypothetical virgins located on a plane of supernatural existence wouldn't be so ardently wished for. I mean heck, why risk the odds of getting metaphysical sex when you have Sylvia Saint and Jenna Jameson right there in your room.
Sexual freedoms may indeed be a remedy for Middle Eastern male rage if it was given half the chance. But the wily mullahs have figured that one out and that's why there are routine sermons blasting Western decadence and filters buzzing away removing data that carries the threat of a sneak sex attack. Keeping their citizenry in a condition of guilt and loathing means the rage can be whipped up at a moment's notice, and when the call goes out for volunteers to blow themselves up, officials won't be kept waiting.
The prophet Mohammad seemed to be more liberated than many of his followers. He famously said - "In this world, I loved women, pleasant scents and prayer". Notice that "women" comes before "prayer".
Meanwhile Muslim youth who want to flirt and date have to be inventive. Some in Rabat, Morocco, exchange furtive kisses in the shadow of the quay walls in the city's harbor district. Others in Cairo make out in cars on the notorious and frowned upon "Shari al-Hubb" or "Street of Love".
In some Muslim jurisdictions you can be arrested for having a condom in your pocket. The Spiegel article mentions an Egyptian journalist named Ali al-Gundi who was stopped by police while he was driving with his girl friend. Ali had forgotten to bring his driving license with him and they were both placed in jail. When the police found a condom, they insisted on viewing his girl friend as a prostitute. Ali claims that if the officers had been less sexually frustrated themselves, the couple's trivial "offenses" would likely have been overlooked.
The greatest obstacle to even a minimum amount of sexual freedom is Sharia law and entrenched Islamic morality. The taboos against sexual freedom are so profound in strict Muslim societies such as Saudi Arabia, that if an unmarried woman is discovered in the company of a man who is not a relative, she risks being taken into custody and subjected to an examination to determine if she recently had sex. This type of regulation makes even Victorian England seem liberated by comparison.
So long as sexual freedoms are censored and driven underground in the Middle East, male energy will find an outlet in rage and conflict. Having said that, obviously no amount of sexual freedom will solve the political problems of that war torn region. But perhaps.. just maybe ... instead of rage and suicide, a more moderate and reasonable mood might prevail if young Muslim guys weren't walking sexual pressure cookers primed to explode.
In the meantime, instead of dropping propaganda leaflets, Bush might be better advised to hire Hef as a consultant and air drop a few thousand Playboys.
About the Author
Aidan Maconachy is a freelance writer and artist based in Ontario. You can visit his blog at http://aidanmaconachyblog.blogspot.com/
by Aidan Maconachy
The psychologist J.M. Prescott found a link between sexual repression and aggression. Writing in the Bulletin of Atomic Scientists, Preston noted that "societies forbidding premarital sex are plagued by acts of rage." Prescott also found a link between sexual repression and "...a greater likelihood of killing and torturing enemies."
Islam does not support sexual liberation. Unless you happen to be a sheik with a pleasure palace and a a dozen mistresses, life for the average unmarried Muslim male in the Middle East doesn't offer a lot of opportunity . The society doesn't encourage it ... no billboard ads with skimpily dressed babes, no sex toy stores or adult video outlets, no racy magazines in the local store. In societies such as Saudi Arabia most of the females are veiled. A guy would have to be blessed with x-ray vision in order to get a glimpse of anything more erotic than say - an ankle or elbow.
This state-of-sexual-affairs is bound to add to the frustration level of young Muslim males with testosterone raging and adrenalin driving up the potential for explosive outbursts. As we know from TV footage, explosions of rage are common occurrences in the Muslim world. It's not unusual to see crowds of males channeling their energy into mass frenzies at funerals, flag-and-effigy-burning-demos or just to make a point about something they don't like on the news.
Internet porn is out of reach to most. Unlike Western nations, you can't assume that the average person living in say in Libya or Iran, will have ready access to a personal PC. In any case even those who do have PC's are often up against censors with filtering devices designed to prevent the encroachment of Western sex demons. Amongst those citizens of Muslim countries who have access to PC's and the software to get around the net, a few telling trends have been noted.
The Muslim world is fanatically obsessed with sex, according to statistics from Google Trend sources. If you type "sex" into Google Trends you can obtain a ranked list of cities, countries and languages in which the term was used most frequently.
Well surprise, surprise ... turns out the "decadent" Westerners were not the main sex seekers on Google.
According to a Spiegel article entitled "Sex and Taboos in the Islamic World", Pakistanis search for "sex" online most frequently, followed closely by Egyptians. Iran and Morocco were in fourth and fifth place, Indonesia seventh and Saudi Arabia eighth.
As any who are acquainted with Islamic sexual taboos well know, homosexuality is considered the ultimate moral horror, and is vigorously outlawed. In Iran men have even been tortured and executed for the "crime" of being gay. So it was interesting to discover that when the terms "boy sex" and "man boy sex" were entered into Google Trends, the top four top search countries listed were Pakistan, Iran, Saudi Arabia and Egypt.
It's pretty evident that despite the lack of sexual freedoms in Muslim societies, there is a voracious appetite behind the scenes for sex, sex and more sex. And maybe that is exactly the remedy - more sex. Move over Condoleezza Rice, perhaps the real key to peace in the Middle East is sexual detente.
Bush should consider appointing Hugh Hefner as an honorary General and send in a few battalions of Playboy bunnies. It's hard to imagine how they could be less successful at quelling the insurgency than the strategies that have been used thus far.
No wonder countries such as Iran banned YouTube and filter content. If Iranian youth of martyr-like disposition were free to surf the sexual web they might give up the desire to blow themselves up. How tragic would that be? The rage that creates suicide bombers would be notched down a few critical degrees. Suddenly the lure of hypothetical virgins located on a plane of supernatural existence wouldn't be so ardently wished for. I mean heck, why risk the odds of getting metaphysical sex when you have Sylvia Saint and Jenna Jameson right there in your room.
Sexual freedoms may indeed be a remedy for Middle Eastern male rage if it was given half the chance. But the wily mullahs have figured that one out and that's why there are routine sermons blasting Western decadence and filters buzzing away removing data that carries the threat of a sneak sex attack. Keeping their citizenry in a condition of guilt and loathing means the rage can be whipped up at a moment's notice, and when the call goes out for volunteers to blow themselves up, officials won't be kept waiting.
The prophet Mohammad seemed to be more liberated than many of his followers. He famously said - "In this world, I loved women, pleasant scents and prayer". Notice that "women" comes before "prayer".
Meanwhile Muslim youth who want to flirt and date have to be inventive. Some in Rabat, Morocco, exchange furtive kisses in the shadow of the quay walls in the city's harbor district. Others in Cairo make out in cars on the notorious and frowned upon "Shari al-Hubb" or "Street of Love".
In some Muslim jurisdictions you can be arrested for having a condom in your pocket. The Spiegel article mentions an Egyptian journalist named Ali al-Gundi who was stopped by police while he was driving with his girl friend. Ali had forgotten to bring his driving license with him and they were both placed in jail. When the police found a condom, they insisted on viewing his girl friend as a prostitute. Ali claims that if the officers had been less sexually frustrated themselves, the couple's trivial "offenses" would likely have been overlooked.
The greatest obstacle to even a minimum amount of sexual freedom is Sharia law and entrenched Islamic morality. The taboos against sexual freedom are so profound in strict Muslim societies such as Saudi Arabia, that if an unmarried woman is discovered in the company of a man who is not a relative, she risks being taken into custody and subjected to an examination to determine if she recently had sex. This type of regulation makes even Victorian England seem liberated by comparison.
So long as sexual freedoms are censored and driven underground in the Middle East, male energy will find an outlet in rage and conflict. Having said that, obviously no amount of sexual freedom will solve the political problems of that war torn region. But perhaps.. just maybe ... instead of rage and suicide, a more moderate and reasonable mood might prevail if young Muslim guys weren't walking sexual pressure cookers primed to explode.
In the meantime, instead of dropping propaganda leaflets, Bush might be better advised to hire Hef as a consultant and air drop a few thousand Playboys.
About the Author
Aidan Maconachy is a freelance writer and artist based in Ontario. You can visit his blog at http://aidanmaconachyblog.blogspot.com/
Female Orgasm - How to Make a Woman Orgasm in 6 Simple Steps
by sacha tarkovsky
Female orgasm all men want to give their partner one but not all men achieve it.
If you follow the simple tips below you will achieve not only more pleasure for you but make your partner have a memorable orgasm to.
Let's look at the female orgasm and the 6 simple tips to make it happen.
1. Relax and Enjoy
Most women view sex as both an emotional and physical experience and are generally not as easily aroused as men.
It is important that they don't feel like sex objects for male gratification, so take time to be considerate and let your partner know you really care.
Female orgasm comes from the mind as much as the body.
2. Foreplay
To relax your partner you need to have plenty of foreplay. Keep in mind there are many erogenous zones apart from the obvious ones.
To give a couple of examples 80% of women don't believe that their partners kiss them enough, so do it. Another great erogenous zone is the neck; kissing or nibbling it will drive your partner wild with desire.
The buttocks what women doesn't feel self conscious about her behind? Show her you appreciate it, stroke it and kiss it and remember - All these gestures add up.
There are many more erogenous zones and we have written on 12 others in previous articles that most men don't think about so discover them.
3. Oral Sex
Women simply loVe oral sex and can orgasm from it easier sometimes than sexual intercourse, so perfect your art. Oral sex does not just mean a quick lick - it's a specific technique.
Plenty of oral sex (10 - 15 minutes) will get your partner in the mood and relax her.
4. Go slowly
Many women claim their men come too quickly. If that's you then you need to slow down or vary the pace.
Sex is not simply about orgasm for you, the build up is pleasurable and it will come eventually, so take your time to give your partner a chance to come to - Don't leave her frustrated.
5. Correct Breathing
Breathe deeply and slowly this will help you prolong sex and you can also synchronise your breathing with your partners, which will be highly erotic for both of you and give the feeling of becoming "one" in sexual union together.
If you haven't tried it do so it's very erotic.
6. Forget complicated positions!
Your main aim is to target the g spot to give a pleasurable female orgasm, there are really 3 positions that work well for this and there mentioned in writings thousands of years ago and they still work.
We have discussed these fully before so check these positions out.
Don't use such complicated positions all you do is concentrate on holding the position or one you have seen in a porn movie hitting the g spot is much easier than that.
6. Visualization
Lose yourself in the act and use visualization.
Imagine a warm glow, in the pelvic region going out to the extremities of the body.
Doing this concentrates your mind on one thing and one thing only - What you are doing and everything else doesn't matter.
Visualization is used to achieve many things in life and can be used as a powerful tool in helping you help your partner achieve orgasm.
Try the above tips and you will make your partner feel relaxed, excited, wanted and loved and you will both enjoy more satisfying sex.
About the Author
MORE FREE BETTER SEX INFO
On all aspects of how to get more from sex and relationships and everything to do with better sex visit our website for a huge resource of articles, features and downloads and at http://www.net-planet.org/index.html
by sacha tarkovsky
Female orgasm all men want to give their partner one but not all men achieve it.
If you follow the simple tips below you will achieve not only more pleasure for you but make your partner have a memorable orgasm to.
Let's look at the female orgasm and the 6 simple tips to make it happen.
1. Relax and Enjoy
Most women view sex as both an emotional and physical experience and are generally not as easily aroused as men.
It is important that they don't feel like sex objects for male gratification, so take time to be considerate and let your partner know you really care.
Female orgasm comes from the mind as much as the body.
2. Foreplay
To relax your partner you need to have plenty of foreplay. Keep in mind there are many erogenous zones apart from the obvious ones.
To give a couple of examples 80% of women don't believe that their partners kiss them enough, so do it. Another great erogenous zone is the neck; kissing or nibbling it will drive your partner wild with desire.
The buttocks what women doesn't feel self conscious about her behind? Show her you appreciate it, stroke it and kiss it and remember - All these gestures add up.
There are many more erogenous zones and we have written on 12 others in previous articles that most men don't think about so discover them.
3. Oral Sex
Women simply loVe oral sex and can orgasm from it easier sometimes than sexual intercourse, so perfect your art. Oral sex does not just mean a quick lick - it's a specific technique.
Plenty of oral sex (10 - 15 minutes) will get your partner in the mood and relax her.
4. Go slowly
Many women claim their men come too quickly. If that's you then you need to slow down or vary the pace.
Sex is not simply about orgasm for you, the build up is pleasurable and it will come eventually, so take your time to give your partner a chance to come to - Don't leave her frustrated.
5. Correct Breathing
Breathe deeply and slowly this will help you prolong sex and you can also synchronise your breathing with your partners, which will be highly erotic for both of you and give the feeling of becoming "one" in sexual union together.
If you haven't tried it do so it's very erotic.
6. Forget complicated positions!
Your main aim is to target the g spot to give a pleasurable female orgasm, there are really 3 positions that work well for this and there mentioned in writings thousands of years ago and they still work.
We have discussed these fully before so check these positions out.
Don't use such complicated positions all you do is concentrate on holding the position or one you have seen in a porn movie hitting the g spot is much easier than that.
6. Visualization
Lose yourself in the act and use visualization.
Imagine a warm glow, in the pelvic region going out to the extremities of the body.
Doing this concentrates your mind on one thing and one thing only - What you are doing and everything else doesn't matter.
Visualization is used to achieve many things in life and can be used as a powerful tool in helping you help your partner achieve orgasm.
Try the above tips and you will make your partner feel relaxed, excited, wanted and loved and you will both enjoy more satisfying sex.
About the Author
MORE FREE BETTER SEX INFO
On all aspects of how to get more from sex and relationships and everything to do with better sex visit our website for a huge resource of articles, features and downloads and at http://www.net-planet.org/index.html
